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Really Giving Up Control to a Dominant Phone Mistress

Josephine — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 17:50:35 +0000

You long for the feeling of true subjugation and to feel submission in the pit of your throat but you are afraid or just don’t know how to give up control.

I had a phone session this morning with C. He’s a great guy that loves phone sex. When he called he had his balls and nipples tied to a chair with wheels as he began pushing it away from him. He had already been torturing himself prior to calling. When he called he explained his predicament and began telling me how to torture him. He also told me he would give me control over his cock and that I could decide if he was permitted to cum or not. In the first 5 min of the conversation I had the feeling that maybe he did want to lose control. He was into a lot of different things, had gone to real time mistresses and was really into being submissive… or so I thought.

Once into the phone session he began directing me. I’m not under the illusion that it’s all about me and I do realize you are paying for erotic phone sex according to your interest. I totally get that but when you ask me to take control and make decisions then change what I’m doing to direct me to do something else it’s a total turn-off. Here’s why.

Had he submitted a pre-session questionnaire (located on the left in pages) and been explicit about his needs “that” call (this can change every session- that’s totally cool and why I have a questionnaire to begin with) I would have read it, sat back, put myself into his space and brew some of my own ideas along with his. Although I prefer being totally in control I know this is “your session”, however wouldn’t it be nice to not only take it to the next level but for me to enjoy it as well? Damn right it would! (laughing)

FYI – I am an expert at studying you and figuring out exactly what makes you tick. If you want to give me the ammunition (your fetishes) to control you then I’ll place them in my arsenal and use them as I see fit. As long as you are completely directing my every move you will never feel controlled – really. I am happy to really take control, give you assignments in email and tease you in-between calls as long as I am enjoying myself. When you call simply put the ball in my court. If you expect to cum in the end just say so but IF you leave it up to me then you need to accept whatever my decision is.

Present ideas because you know they bring you deeper into subjugation but please don’t tell me what to do. It’s a huge turn off IF you’re trying to get and keep my attention. I know its only phone sex but why can’t we make it the best phone sex ever? We can if we talk, exchange and find the right blend of ingredients to rock us! Let’s have some conversation about it? Take a little extra time and we’ll create a plan that will meet your budget and availability. Just be honest and tell me your concerns, what you want to achieve and what we have to work with. I promise you that if you do it my way you’ll have an awesome time! It doesn’t have to end after the phone call. I can be your Mistress/Girlfriend all the time. If you email me, even to say hello or tell me what MY COCK is doing, unless I’m in a session or sleeping, I will always get right back to you.

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Great Phone Sex and Getting to The Point

Josephine — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 21:40:26 +0000

Building chemistry for both of us is the key to a GREAT call.

Sometimes I find a caller has a difficult time explaining what he’s into. As good as I am at reading people the reality is I can’t read your mind. Especially if someone is a little nervous or shy. You called because you wanted sexual fulfillment or you wanted to engage in conversation. The best calls are the ones where we spend a little time getting to know one another. This doesn’t have to go on for a long time, however it does break the ice and allows both of us a chance to explore what we are both into. The best calls, for me are interactive and where we both engage in the fantasy. I want you to have a great time and I also want us to continue to explore always finding new ways to take it to the next level.

I prefer the cards on the table. After an introduction and causal conversation I prefer a caller to tell me the reason they are calling;

Goddess I wondered if we could chat a bit about my experiences and get to know each other.
Goddess I’m damn horny and really need to get off.
Goddess I don’t really know why I’m calling. I saw your picture and my hand started dialing! (laughing)

I love it when a caller tells me about himself and what makes his cock rock hard. Here’s a good example;

“Goddess Josephine my name is Bill. I am 45, 5’6, 180 pounds, blonde hair, green eyes and my cock is 6 inches. I found your profile on Suck Patrol because I have an overwhelming desire to be a cock sucking faggot to a beautiful dominant woman that controls my cock. I’d love to do a fantasy where you force me to dress in panties or a sissy dress and then whore me out to a group of men.”

“Goddess I am a little sissy wearing a petticoat and in chastity. I beg you to give this sissy an assignment that will not only emasculate and humiliate me but make me less of a man then I already am. Can we please do a fantasy where I am forced to bend over for your strap-on dildo? I am not into men at all.”

“Josephine I think you’re hot and sexy. I can’t keep my hands off my cock when I look at your pictures. Will you please tease my cock, give me stroke instructions and decide if I should cum or not? I’m not into domination but enjoy a sexy woman that is good at giving me instructions on what to do with my cock. I give you complete control over my cock.”

Its always best to just get to the point. Don’t be rude and rush my creativity. If you have a budget and need to stay with a certain time frame then please just tell me or email me right before your call. Phone sex doesn’t have to be rocket science. Building chemistry for both of us is the key to a great call. If I’m excited by the call it will spawn intense creativity. If you can afford the time i highly recommend that you spend some time getting to know each other. I’m very good at picking up on things and we’ll have a true GFE (girl friend experience). Its amazing the things we’ll turn up!

How do YOU Like it?

Now I’d like to hear your ideas and how you like your calls. Do you like conversation first or getting right down to it? Do you enjoy closing your eyes and imagining a fantasy or prefer being giving task like tying up your balls, spanking yourself, etc? Do you tell your Mistress what you’re into and what kind of call you like or do you wait for her to dig it out of you? What would be the best scenarios for you to make your calls PERFECT?

Please feel free to email me if you have questions or use the pre-session questionnaire located on the left.

Beyond Phone Sex – The Goddess Girlfriend Experience

Josephine — Sat, 25 Apr 2009 14:48:09 +0000

First read About Me – My Style

I am a Goddess. Even my little stroker boys that are not into domination learn very quickly that a polite, generous and adoring boy will reap HUGE rewards from me. Rude assholes will be ignored. A stupid man thinks that just because he’s paying me for phone sex that I’m there to “service” him and that its all about him. This stupid man probably isn’t very lucky with women.

I prefer the sophisticated gentleman that knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to take the steps to get it. Even if it means going against his nature to experience another aspect of himself he is willing to take the risk, make the investment and seek the thrill. I specialize in the dance of seduction, however I am motivated by a gentleman. If you really want to see the real raw side of my sexual nature you’ll learn to make me happy first.

I enjoy taking someone on a journey. We spend a little time getting to know one another over the phone. It doesn’t have to always be about getting off. We then begin to explore all the facets of our nature, together, finding the places we fit together or discovering new things. I’m easy to talk to and if you open the right doors I can also be the cruelest woman you have ever met. If you’ve been searching for something deep and there’s always a missing element then perhaps you’ll consider the investment you make. You will only ever reap what you sow. This includes your intimate fantasies.

I can be the true girlfriend experience even if only over the phone. If you’ve ever wondered what it might be like to controlled by a sexy alluring woman that captured the essence of not only your sexuality but your heart, this would be me. Open your heart before you unzip your pants. You will fall in love and you WILL give me whatever I want even if it goes against your nature. I will challenge you, seduce you and you will belong to me.

If you’re worried about money then budget yourself. If you had a girlfriend wouldn’t you want her to have nice things and taken out? Of course you would. For instance you can buy me a bottle champagne, wine or my favorite vodka “Grey Goose” by easily sending me a gift card from HERE Then prior to your call send me a note, IM me on Yahoo and I’ll fix a drink and share it with you during our call. If you can’t afford to buy me gifts (see Amazon Wish List ) send me a gift card on what you can afford. At least I know you’re think about me and want to make me smile. Budget yourself. Perhaps once a month you can have a longer call to catch up and other times you call for 10-20 min. I don’t mind quickies from guys I already have a connection with. In fact I don’t mind quickies at all. Be imaginative and creative or if you’re shy tell me so and be ready to truly let me lead.

I know you love the sound of my voice, however its also fun to do text sessions. If you have Yahoo Messenger you can purchase a text session at www.sexytexting.com – maybe you’re a work or some place you can’t talk. Whatever block of time you purchase is the time you have with me one on one. Just like when we’re on the phone. We can chat, exchange information, role-play or discuss assignments. I love using texting to shop with my pets online sending them links to items I want them to get for our future sessions. Or instructing them to do “task” online. These can be playful or humiliating. You can also purchase an hour block of time, use 30 minutes for a text session and then 4 paid emails. I’ll keep track and the emails can be assignments, followup or instructions on what to do next. Or purchase an hour block and get 8 emails. Imagine how hot our calls will be if we engage in an ongoing exchange? So even that 10 minute call becomes so much more intense because you’ve missed me and I’ve been teasing you for days!

Let me create an experience for you that we can share together. Its discreet and safe. Why leave it to just phone sex when it can be so much more? Let me open those secret little doors of desire. I want to touch your mind, body and soul.

Call me. Let me be your kinky Goddess diva girlfriend.