After reading Ms Ally’s post “Female Superiority: Are Women “Better” than Men?” and viewing the comments on the subject of Female Supremacy I starting thinking about relationships in general. It wasn’t until the “second wave” of feminism (1960’s through the 90’s) that women also became head of household. It didn’t matter how . . . → Read More: Dominance and Submission – Is There Really Such thing as Relationship Equality?]]>

After reading Ms Ally’s post “Female Superiority: Are Women “Better” than Men?” and viewing the comments on the subject of Female Supremacy I starting thinking about relationships in general. It wasn’t until the “second wave” of feminism (1960’s through the 90’s) that women also became head of household. It didn’t matter how much money they made or how much smarter they were, the men wore the pants and made the final decision for the relationship or family.  Men were dominant and a good wife is submissive to her husband. The woman’s movement clearly heralds the idea that women should have the same rights and be equal to men.

But is gender equality really possible and is it the best solution?

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As children we are exposed to a set of values, right or wrong, based on the moral agenda of our parents. Their values and child rearing skills are often created from their own childhood or experiences. Whatever the case is as children we begin to create our reality based on what we see . . . → Read More: The Complexity of Sexual Desire]]>

As children we are exposed to a set of values, right or wrong, based on the moral agenda of our parents. Their values and child rearing skills are often created from their own childhood or experiences. Whatever the case is as children we begin to create our reality based on what we see in our immediate environment. Our ideals about relationships, sex and how we feel about ourselves begins to form.

When I was a little girl I use to fantasize about being a Queen. I didn’t have the traditional fantasies of a white picket fence, husband and 2.2 children. My mother raised us alone, for the most part and although my dad was part of my life, it was clear to me that we didn’t have the traditional set up. Being an attractive young woman I often received a lot of attention from the opposite sex which continued to shape my views and feed new desires. At one point I pretty much figured that I could get anything I wanted as long as I was “nice” to boys and men. I’d bat my eyelashes, bend over and flash a cute little smile. It was like kryptonite to men. At some point I tapped into the magic of denial. It all began quite innocently when I would reject the affections of a boy only to watch him switch into a groveling whiner. At a very young age I realized that less was more and that the art of seduction had to be a very clever engagement.

The truth was that any clever woman that understood the complexity of desire could have almost anything she wanted.

In my teens I had the “game” pretty much figured out. I was hot, sexy and the truth is I had the world by the balls because of it. This isn’t something a feminist wants to hear and it certainly doesn’t seem empowering to women, however I began to notice this very same magic in other women less attractive. It was clear that although beauty was an instant lure, the truth was that any clever woman that understood the complexity of desire could have almost anything she wanted.

I went to college and had a professional map well planned. Intelligent, sophisticated and with a major bag of tricks I was ready to bite the world in the ass. There was an evaluation I made while working as a fetish model and phone sex operator. I was far enough into my schooling to begin interning and thinking about my professional career. These were my options;

1)      Become a professional. Work for someone else, most likely a man that thought about grabbing my ass everyday and uses macho manipulation to attempt to control me, however we all know how that really works. (laughing) I get to work 50-60 hours a week, busting my ass making some idiot rich that probably spends 30% of his pay on phone sex, strippers and hookers.

2)      Become a Goddess and phone sex diva that wakes up when I feel like it, has an orgasm, lies in bed in my nightie driving men crazy. I can put on my headset and earn the same amount of money in my garden while talking to an adoring sissy and the only real pressure I have is the UPS man delivering yet another gift and interrupting a call.

Hard choice, huh? (laughing)

But once again the complexity of desire presents itself in my own sexual fantasies. I’m talking to a guy on the phone sharing a kinky hot phone sex fantasy. My imagination is spinning away, he’s moaning and we engage in an intense dynamic that sends me into an erotic headspace. I hang up and as the day progresses I start adding to the fantasy and wondering which playmate I’ll unleash this on. I have all the weapons I need, having mastered the art of seduction, to lure almost any man into my creative kinky web. Bingo, got ‘em and as long as his cock is hard he’ll go along with almost anything. He’s thrilled at my creativity and how excited this kinky fantasy is making me. I think that I’ve found a new partner in crime and we’ll take this fantasy to new heights, deepening and exploring this new treat. So I email him, text him, leave messages and no reply. Weeks go by and finally I get the Dear Jane email.

“Goddess Josephine,

You are an amazing woman. The last time we were together was incredible and I never exploded like that before. More than anything I want to be your total slave BUT it’s just all too consuming for me and scares the shit out of me. I’m sorry but I’m just not worthy. ”

What the fuck just happened? He had the most intense orgasm ever and yet he’s using the excuse of not being worthy because the truth is that he’s too afraid to continue? Meanwhile I’m reeling into the next hot adventure. It’s like crashing into a wall. All that work to lure him in hook, line and sinker just to have him to feel guilty about likely it too much?

This also happens with some of my callers. We’ll engage in a hot dress up sissy fantasy or a steamy public humiliation scene. He’s panting, begging, groveling and we’re both really into it. Later I might get an email or not hear from him at all. Months pass and he calls with a confession. He was overwhelmed by my creativity (the reason he called me in the first place) and my apparent excitement. He didn’t want to let me down or disappoint me. He confesses that he called other phone mistress’s but began to miss the intensity we had invested in. He realizes it’s just not the same and here he is, hard cock, dripping in submission, so horny his body is shaking and yet so fucking nervous he’s about to pee his panties. (laughing)

Fantasies are just that, fantasies. Your sexual desires come in waves and the truth is they are ever changing. Everyone has a few hot buttons, the old faithful turn-on’s that does it every time, however it’s perfectly natural to explore new avenues. The key is to remember its only one aspect of your life, entertainment and sexual fulfillment. If sex is consuming your life, causing you to lose income and ruin your relationships then you have another problem called “addiction”. Why the hell can’t we wake up and have sexual fantasies as if we were selecting an outfit for the day or ordering lunch? (laughing) Seriously, how about a little tease with a side of denial? Maybe we’ll start with a hot spanking and finish with a good fucking? Afterward we’ll take a siesta and get our asses back to the REAL WORLD and earn a living. Unfortunately you’re not as lucky as I am where you can off to work, continue to be naughty and make a living at it. (laughing)

So lighten up boys! Just tell us what you’re thinking but don’t write me a script. Leave enough room for my own creativity and if we’re in the middle of a hot fantasy carefully inject something new into it. Communicate with us and tell us what drives you fucking mad. Don’t you know that making you crazy, hearing you pant and moan is what turns us on? Today you wanna be a sissy in panties and tomorrow you wanna be a human puppy. It’s ok. Have fun with it. Get off and move on. Explore different women, hot new fantasies and if it doesn’t work out try something new.

Cheers!

Josephine

For an erotic phone session with Empress Josephine, call 800-601-6975

Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute, with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to  your credit card
http://ratemycall.com

Last month I made a post called The Art of Moaning where I gave you several audio samples of me moaning. I also mentioned my buddy, Empress Melanie and how we did a two girl call where she moaned and made me wet. So I . . . → Read More: Femdom Erotic Audios, Updates and Ramblings ~ Thursday]]>

How could you ever tell this face no?

Last month I made a post called The Art of Moaning where I gave you several audio samples of me moaning. I also mentioned my buddy, Empress Melanie and how we did a two girl call where she moaned and made me wet. So I asked her to make us, YOU & ME (laughing) an audio. OMG she is so fucking hot. We actually have plans to take a beach trip this summer and I can’t wait to see her in  bikini! Yummmmmm

Click here to listen to her moan. Be sure to leave comments for her to read.

I have been getting emails about my availability. Just because you don’t see me logged on doesn’t mean I’m not available to talk. I dislike taking calls on the cell phone and when the weather is nice I enjoy sitting outside and playing in my greenhouse.  So don’t hesitate to pop me an email because I get it instantly on my blackberry and will reply back quickly letting you know when I can get to the phone. It could be anywhere from 5 to 15 min. Often I’m happy to give instructions to prepare for the phone sex call.  If we have never talked before then I have no way of knowing that you’re over 18 and would not feel comfortable giving you instructions about a phone sex call. If we have talked then simply remind me in your email. empress.josephine@yahoo(dot)com  (be sure to replace (dot) with . )

To be honest I prefer a little advance and planning for our calls. Not too far in advance but within the hour. Send the Pre-Session Questionnaire and add whatever notes needed to make your call extra hot. The best fantasies are the ones where you give key elements and let me weave the fantasy from my own imagination.  When you write out a blow by blow script its difficult to follow and its more like acting then an interactive session. If you give me the basics, follow the questionnaire and complete all the questions, I promise you that you’ll be happy with the results. I am natural alpha female, however I’m also a woman that is clever enough to know that real control comes from penetrating the deepest desire of you sexuality. I want to know what makes you rock hard and more than anything I want to OWN that cock. Tell me your secrets and let me handle the rest. I’m an expert but I’m not a mind reader.

I’m not a late night person. I know a lot of you want to talk to me and can only call late at night. I’m sorry about this but I enjoy getting up at 5am, letting my dogs out, having coffee, meditate and play with my morning strokers. I might suggest that you try on the weekend during the day or how about an erotic audio?  These are not like the free femdom erotic samples I post here and in the forums but full fantasies and custom to your sexual fantasies. If you send a pre-session questionnaire and notes I will write something and record it.  You can listen to it over and over again. Start a collection and you can even do ongoing training with audios.  Here’s how..

Click Here for Audio Prices

Let’s say you want to engage in a chastity program. You’ll buy your first lesson via at least a 10 min audio.  After purchasing from dispatch you can send the questionnaire but tell me its for an audio.  I’ll prepare your first audio and send written instructions to begin your program. There will be weekly reporting and you can purchase additional training audios as often as needed. It’s really wonderful and can work with almost any type of training.

Audios can be downloaded and added to your Ipod or smart phone. If downloading isn’t an option then I am happy to provide you with a link and player to play online.  Think about getting a cheap little mp3 player just for your erotic audios if you worry about privacy. Erotic sex audios can be awesomely hot! Just close your eyes and imagine me being there.

Give it a try! To order call dispatch at 1-800-601-6975. Tell her you’d like to pay for a (choose your time- Click Here for Audio Prices) and that its with me, Empress Josephine. Once approved she will email me your first name only. This is why its essential, for the sake of privacy, that you email me right after so I know its you. Then allow 24-48 hours for your audio.

Kisses

Josephine

For an erotic phone session with Empress Josephine, call 800-601-6975

Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute, with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to  your credit card
http://ratemycall.com

Follow me . . . → Read More: Twitter Games ~ Follow Me and Let’s have FUN!]]> Are you following me on Twitter? If not, you need to. Starting now and through the month of Feb I will be sending instance Twitter updates. Games, free audios and even a chance to win free minutes. You’ll have an open window to respond so make sure you follow and pay attention!

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Now that the holidays are over I can get back to structuring my availability and playing with you! Unfortunately I’m not at a PC all the time.  I do, however reply to email pretty quickly so if you’d like to do a session or have a question . . . → Read More: Chatting, Calls, Emailing and Playing with Me!]]> Chatting, Calls, Emailing and Playing with Me!

Now that the holidays are over I can get back to structuring my availability and playing with you! Unfortunately I’m not at a PC all the time.  I do, however reply to email pretty quickly so if you’d like to do a session or have a question then unless I am on a call, sleeping or busy I will always get right back to you.  It’s ok to say hello and let me know you’re thinking about me. It’s also a good idea to follow me on Twitter and you’ll see what I’m up to throughout the day. I often hold impromptu chats in the chat room and these will ONLY be announced on Twitter.

For Jan my availability is as follows:

Saturday & Sunday – On very early 7am until around 9PM. I will log off for dinner, take a walk or break but pretty much I am always on weekends.

Tuesdays - On in the morning early 7am until 10am. Then off and return around 4ish until 9 or 10PM

Monday, Thursday & Friday – on at 7am-3pm take a break and return at 7PM until 10PM

Wednesday is a open. Sometimes I take off, sometimes I do calls by appointment. I never really know.

If you have twitter set up to follow me be sure to check for chats and special events. Look on the right of my blog or Follow me on Twitter!