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Tease Me, Please Me ~ Seducing My Seduction

Josephine — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 20:09:40 +0000

You know how there is just “something” about a woman? She doesn’t even have to be drop dead gorgeous, however the way she moves, smiles, her eyes dance and she carries herself with seductive purpose. She uses the right choice of words and even though you know she is capable of hurting you, she confidently portrays herself as a lady. If she wants you she will have you. Its just that simple and will stop at nothing to capture you. The art of seduction is mastered and she spend the time to study you before going in and claiming you.

I don’t expect men t0 be quite as calculating. They are physical creatures that rarely possess the ability to really figure women out in general much less complex diva. However a man can learn a skill set in teasing and seducing even the most multifarious woman. It’s not rocket science or magic. The most important component is consistency which can be very difficult for most males. Its a handicap you are all born with and if you were not fortunate enough to learn early, from a very demanding woman, then you might spend the rest of your life settling for women you don’t desire to your core. In fact I would judge to bet that many of you are in relationships right now with women that are the opposite of the women you masturbate to.

The first step in teasing and pleasing a Diva, such as myself is to be consistent with your intent to please her. Learning to focus on her needs is what smart men do because a happy woman will bestow her gifted charms on you. A selfish macho idiot gets only a fraction of what a woman is truly capable of giving. The women that allow this, 9 times out of 10, are incapable of high superior levels of sexuality. Therefore you must be prepared to have a plan, stick with it and follow the steps.

1) Compose a letter or prepare a verbal mission of your intent. Nothing swoons a woman quite like this. Tell her that you adore her and have made it your mission to rock her world.

2) Buy her a gift. Nothing proves action and intent more than a well thought out gift. It doesn’t have to be expensive. Don’t be a weenie, just do it and do it often. I am thrilled to receive gifts as a measure of devotion. Its a huge turn off when a man doesn’t make an attempt. It’s not about the money because the truth is “someone” will give it to me. There will always be a man ready to go that extra mile for me. Are you going to stand out or disappear into the background? Make a budget, stick to it and be consistent with your generosity.

3) Study her. Learn what she enjoys and engage her. I have a caller that knows how much I love travel and exotic places. He learns about them and tells me all about it. He takes the time to study and find interesting things. I LOVE talking to him. Another taught me about various bourbons and the history. I love learning new things. It’s not JUST phone sex. Its a relationship and I will be as generous as you are. Share a fantasy you think I’ll enjoy. I have a few callers that give me great phone sex. In fact I often have orgasms on the phone. They invest the time, money and adoration into our relationship. We share secrets, sexy IM’s, email and more. It’s a whole other level because I am “IN TO IT”.

I love it when one of my humiliation whores presents a well thought out mission he knows I’ll enjoy. I enjoy planning, doing and following up. Or a stroker boy gives me control over his cock for a week. He has stroke instructions, knows he can’t cum but will beg, whimper and plead. These can even be a series of short 10 min calls throughout a week. Another sissy of mine, who enjoys being my little princess, will get all his clothes and make-up, turn on the cam and let me dress him like a doll. We each get a glass of wine and we have the best time! Be creative and when in doubt just call me and lets discuss ideas.

3) Let her know you are thinking of her. Gifts and calls are nice but little notes letting her know you’re thinking of her are wonderful. Don’t write long letters in case she is busy. Just a simple note letting her know that you are thinking about her and how wonderful she is.

The Submissive Cock ~ Reality and Fantasy

Josephine — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 20:26:32 +0000

There are guys that call and swear they are ready to submit mind, body and soul. With hard cock in hand they beg for me to take them, give them no options, control their cock and take over their minds. After years of battling the urge they realize they have no choice then to submit to a dominant mistress and become a real slave. In fact some of them are so convincing that I am prepared to help chart a course for them to better understand their submissive nature and train them to finally pursue a relationship with a dominant woman. This one handed bandit makes commitments he can’t seem remember after his “motivator” shoots. It’s true that a stiff dick has no conscious; however the reality is it often does the thinking. (Laughing)

I’m sure many of you get a deep sexual welling inside where you find yourself submissive but as soon as you orgasm the urge dissipates. While your cock is hard you feel sooooo submissive to the point that your cock twitches but when you cum it’s all over or at least until the next time.

There’s another problem. While rock hard you make promises and then when the session is over you feel guilty about calling again, right? In your attempt to make it real you agree to a follow up assignment or anything else I suggest as long as you can satisfy your sexual longing. You never seem to follow through because the truth is the urge has left and back to life as usual.

It doesn’t have to be so complicated. I can totally understand how you feel because on the opposite end of the spectrum I go through the same thing, although I am naturally dominant in my sexuality and personal life, I am more “ON” when my dominance is seduced. Why can’t we agree to take make that fantasy as real as possible and just pick up from where we left off the next session? It’s really pretty easy. Just pop me an email be honest and we’ll engage each other in a hot ass femdom phone sex call. When you do your next session send me another email and outline what we did in our previous session and that this next call is a follow-up. Simple.

Now if you ARE truly interested in an actual slave or sissy training program or cock control then you should convince me you’re sincere. Simply following up with an email to request an assignment and then complete the assignment. Although its not expected tributes/tips are always very much appreciated. After a call stay on the line and you’ll bounce back to dispatch or call back. Just tell her that you’d like to leave a tip for Josephine and the amount. She’ll email me and let me know. As we progress through calls and assignments you’ll learn more about the dynamic of dominance and submission. When you’re ready you’ll go on to introduce a girlfriend, wife or seek out a lifestyle relationship with a dominant woman.

Regardless of the reason why you call or what makes you explode, I’m here to help you have the best experience you can have during a phone sex call. In fact it excites me to weave this beautiful plan to rock your world to the point that you are addicted to the sound of my voice and the sexy things I can teach you. (wink) So lighten up and let’s have some hot talk and earth shattering orgasms.

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Really Giving Up Control to a Dominant Phone Mistress

Josephine — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 17:50:35 +0000

You long for the feeling of true subjugation and to feel submission in the pit of your throat but you are afraid or just don’t know how to give up control.

I had a phone session this morning with C. He’s a great guy that loves phone sex. When he called he had his balls and nipples tied to a chair with wheels as he began pushing it away from him. He had already been torturing himself prior to calling. When he called he explained his predicament and began telling me how to torture him. He also told me he would give me control over his cock and that I could decide if he was permitted to cum or not. In the first 5 min of the conversation I had the feeling that maybe he did want to lose control. He was into a lot of different things, had gone to real time mistresses and was really into being submissive… or so I thought.

Once into the phone session he began directing me. I’m not under the illusion that it’s all about me and I do realize you are paying for erotic phone sex according to your interest. I totally get that but when you ask me to take control and make decisions then change what I’m doing to direct me to do something else it’s a total turn-off. Here’s why.

Had he submitted a pre-session questionnaire (located on the left in pages) and been explicit about his needs “that” call (this can change every session- that’s totally cool and why I have a questionnaire to begin with) I would have read it, sat back, put myself into his space and brew some of my own ideas along with his. Although I prefer being totally in control I know this is “your session”, however wouldn’t it be nice to not only take it to the next level but for me to enjoy it as well? Damn right it would! (laughing)

FYI – I am an expert at studying you and figuring out exactly what makes you tick. If you want to give me the ammunition (your fetishes) to control you then I’ll place them in my arsenal and use them as I see fit. As long as you are completely directing my every move you will never feel controlled – really. I am happy to really take control, give you assignments in email and tease you in-between calls as long as I am enjoying myself. When you call simply put the ball in my court. If you expect to cum in the end just say so but IF you leave it up to me then you need to accept whatever my decision is.

Present ideas because you know they bring you deeper into subjugation but please don’t tell me what to do. It’s a huge turn off IF you’re trying to get and keep my attention. I know its only phone sex but why can’t we make it the best phone sex ever? We can if we talk, exchange and find the right blend of ingredients to rock us! Let’s have some conversation about it? Take a little extra time and we’ll create a plan that will meet your budget and availability. Just be honest and tell me your concerns, what you want to achieve and what we have to work with. I promise you that if you do it my way you’ll have an awesome time! It doesn’t have to end after the phone call. I can be your Mistress/Girlfriend all the time. If you email me, even to say hello or tell me what MY COCK is doing, unless I’m in a session or sleeping, I will always get right back to you.

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A Beautiful Moon and So many Horny Boys Needing Cock Control

Josephine — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 01:33:11 +0000

Wow did you see that moon out tonight? I probably could have figured it was a full because right after I had my coffee the phone started ringing off the hook! I had one young boy, maybe 21 that was edging all night. His girlfriend teased his cock all night and sent him packing. He called over and over begging and plead for me to slap his cock and tell him what a tiny dick he had and that if he fucked me in the ass MAYBE I’d finally feel his cock. He was on fire! He then called me again while driving to work, stroking and driving until I finally told him to pull over. After 4 hours back and forth he finally shot his pent up load.

I then went to run a few errands. I buy my dog food at a special feed store. Since I now have SIX rescued dogs and 5 cats I am a GOOD customer. As soon as I walk in the door someone is there with a flat bed ready to pull my bags. Today it was a little chilly so I put on my sexy snake skin cowgirl boots, short denim skirt and a cute little button down blouse. Today I walked in to find a new boy working there. He came right up to me and I thought he would stop breathing!

I’m a dangerous woman. When I know I have an effect on a man I really work it. I do everything in my power to work his nerves and make him shake. Call it a game or just my natural seductive allure. He grabs the flatbed and starts to follow me. I could feel his eyes on my ass burning a hole through my skirt. I purposely bent over and pick up a cat toy that had fallen off the shelf. I could hear his breath change. I then noticed a display of boots on sale. Shoes trumps EVERYTHING! So I picked up a pair and sat on the bench next to the display. I asked him if he could please pull off the boots I was already wearing.

Have you ever tried to take off cowboy boots while wearing a short skirt? (laughing) I lifted my leg pretending to hold my skirt down while he pulled my boots off. Truth is I wanted to see if he’d look up my skirt. I decided to give the boy a break and I looked away pretending to look at the other boots. From the corner of my eye I caught him looking up my skirt at my panties. I swear I saw his levi’s bulge. Worse part was he had to take off the boots I tired on and walk with me to pick up 30 pound bags of dog food! (laughing) Poor boy. He had no control over his cock or the way he walked.

Meanwhile I have some of my phone sissies emailing me on my blackberry wanting to know when I would be home so they could call. The moment I walked in the door I was playing with some darling sweet sissy sluts! It’s been a good day.

Sissy Wife Training ~ Domestic Duties Part One

Josephine — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 16:20:30 +0000

Sissy Wife Training

As I mentioned last week I am interested in doing a sissy wife training. I think that a sissy makes an excellent wife because he can serve in so many different ways; sissy maid, sissy doll, sissy cuck, entertain friends and more. I asked you for your feed back and received great comments and emails. Thank you! Even though I have my own ideas, based on the needs of a dominant woman, it was wonderful hearing your ideas. So now we are ready to begin a multi part training on becoming a sissy wife.

Domestic Duties of a Sissy Wife

The picture above is actually one of my special sissies, however in this picture she is wearing a plain black dress. This is ok for everyday attire, however I much prefer a frilly sissified maids outfit. Why? Well because it turns me on to look at a very sissified male. It’s also essential that a sissy learn how to clean well without messy up her dress up. This is all part of the training. (see the dress below? This is perfect. Click the dress to see more)

In this training session we will address the proper attire for domestic servitude and being not only a sissy wife but a sissy maid.

Proper Attire for a Sissy Wife Maid

Must wear a frilly sissy maids outfit. This can french or a very sissified “young” ladies dress such as the type Joan Clever (Leave it to Beaver) would wear. The sissy maid must wear her hair up so it doesn’t get in the way and if needed wear a maids cap. The sissy maid must wear full bottom white panties or white rumba style panties. The sissy maid must also wear stockings, NOT panties. These can be stay up stockings or wear a garter belt if needed. The sissy must wear at least a 3 inch heel. A smaller heel may be approved by the mistress owner, however these shoes must be worn at all times.

It’s important for the sissy to look fresh and neat even while doing even the dirtiest housework. This is part of the training and practice she must endure. While practicing the sissy can wear an old dress but NEVER in front of mistress!

In part two we will get into the nitty gritty. Below is your assignment to practice being a sissy wife as well as an audio to motivate you.

Sissy Maid Assignment

Shave any male body hair. It’s important to keep smooth and free of any nasty filthy male hair. Place a cock ring (clitty ring) around girlie balls and clitty. Purchase a little bell to attach. (humiliated sissy )You can also use a nice ribbon with a bell attached but make sure you tie it tightly so it doesn’t fall off. Put a pussy plug inside with harness.

Get dressed in your frilly sissy maid outfit. If you are still practicing and home alone you can wear an older dress and then practice cleaning the tub, the toilet, floors (on your hands and knees scrubbing) without messing up your clothes. A good rule of thumb is to clean one thing, run to the bathroom and check, make sure you’re fresh and then move onto the next project.

In this assignment its all about the dress and sissy maid attire. Please leave your comments below. If you have pictures link them below. If you have video on You Tube send me the link so I can put here and on my new humiliated sissy site & blog. www.humiliatedsissy.com Be sure to subscribe to that blog separately because its all new and JUST about sissy training and humiliation.

If you are interested in personal one on one training for sissies that include public and private assignments call me. Our first call will be a chance to talk, get to know one another and perhaps play a bit. You’ll be given an assignment and asked to follow up in email. In between our calls I will give you assignments, however the first time you don’t follow orders or make excuses I will stop. If I am going to take my free email time with you then you need to be commitment and willing to make me happy too.

FYI – if you come here and go to Humiliated Sissy Blog PLEASE leave well thought out comments. This helps me so much in getting the right traffic for my blogs. It only takes a moment to comment and I really do loving reading what you have to say. Kisses bitches

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An Orgasm a Day Keeps the Doctor Away… Unless you happen to be dating him! lol

Josephine — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 21:11:37 +0000

Pleasure is Healthy

If you want to take sex to a whole new level simply ask me to show you how.

(laughing) Actually I’m not dating my doctor but couldn’t resist that little pun. I’ve been wanting to write this article for some time now. A few of you know one of my beauty secrets is to have an orgasm every single morning. I’ve done this for years and years. The moment I wake up, even before coffee (speaking of coffee THANK YOU J for the African coffee its divine honey- I love you my sweet little special boy) I reach into my night table and pull out my magic wand. I’m very orgasmic so it never takes me long to pop, especially with this high powered sex toy. Then I have coffee.

But what I didn’t tell you is that I have a mini ritual. As I slowly start to wake up I begin to visualize. Visualization is an important part of my spirituality and my sexuality. I tell many of you to close your eyes and take a deep breath during our call. Rather then have you on your knees (laughing) I want you in a comfortable position, eyes closed and relaxed. I am doing exactly the same thing. I want us to see, sense and feel it with our mind. AS we get to know one another we build a deep bond and this connection helps us visualize even better. This is why I speak to you during a call and make you interact. It makes the visual much more real for me.

So my morning visualization if a type of chakra alignment. Chakra’s (click link to learn more) are energy centers. In addition I also follow a type of Tantra Kundalini (click to read) meditation. As I release the energy and serpent my entire body begins to vibrate and then in the end I orgasm BUT I revert that energy back into CHI (life force). I know it doesn’t sound very sexy but I assure you it is. In fact I’ve used this technique with teasing and denial aficionados’. When you deny the energy it builds. Now if you constructively take that enegry and use it to build life force then you will experience something far beyond physcial orgasm. Your entire being has an orgasm.

So if you want to take phone sex to a whole new level I promise you that if you follow the steps and practice you will be an expert! If you want to take sex to a whole new level simply ask me to show you how. (wink) Then we can have morning orgasms together.

What say you? Comments?

Training a Sissy Wife

Josephine — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 17:30:11 +0000

I decided to continue my fantasy of marrying a sissy wife and begin my new training program “Training a Sissy Wife“. This will be an ongoing training program preparing my sissies in the event they are lucky enough to find that perfect woman needing a wife. If you follow my training I bet your chances will be MUCH better. Certainly there are other women like me looking to have it all; a doll they can dress up, a live in maid, lady in waiting, girlfriend to shop with, entertainment and someone to help with the Bulls.

So now I’m going to solicit my readers and slaves to help me. In the comment area you’ll post your ideas and links to special articles and things to help a sissy wife. Remember, I have never had a wife before so I need your help in figuring this out so that one day I’ll be training a REAL sissy wife. Do keep in mind that my sissy wife must also double as a cuck, therefore she will be extra busy! Any time saving tips on house cleaning, shopping or cooking to save this poor sissy from enslavement will be helpful.

So let’s begin.

First of all do you feel the sissy wife should be placed in chastity?
What should be the daily “house” attire? Do you feel the sissy wife should have a different outfit for each duty she performs?
What do you think should be the duties of a sissy wife?
Do you think a sissy wife should work outside the home? If so, how would she get all her duties done?

As you can see this is a start and we will elaborate more later in future post. In the meantime join us in the Get Girlie Forum to discuss this topic HOWEVER please please leave comments here too. I love it when you post on my blog and share links, pics and information to help everyone.

Click the player to listen to a short audio about our special night.

Giving me your MAN PUSSY ~ Strap-on Lesson

Josephine — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 23:41:13 +0000

Now that you know why I love taking that ass then you should beg me to take your virgin whole hole. If you’ve never had anything in that man pussy then you’ll need to be trained to take my fem cock in your ass. In this assignment, which you will complete, you’ll train your ass for me.

Above you’ll see a device I often use not only for strap-on dildo training but also used to keep you mindful. If you’re a sissy you’ll be required to wear this device often, however if you’re a bend over bitch boy then you’ll also need to follow this lesson. Click the image to buy the device if you don’t already have one and to read more about it.

Once you have your device and a bottle of lubricant you’ll get ready for our ritual. I would prefer you call me on the phone for this, however if you can’t then follow the instructions below. You should have a small plug and a larger plug. We’ll begin with the smaller one and then work our way up.

You should get into a habit of douching that man pussy and making sure the inside is nice and clean. I never want to fuck you and pull out a dirty fem cock. When I use my strapon dildo on you I want you nice and lubricated. Begin by inserting the small plug into the harness. Then insert it into your ass and fasten the harness. You may need to adjust it so you get a snug fit. You should be able to freely move about without it slipping out of your ass. You’ll wear this for at least a few hours at a time. It would make me very happy if you wore it under your clothes and went to work or put it on before you go to bed and wear it all night.

You can also insert it right before our call. Let me know that you are giving me your man pussy and training.

Great Phone Sex and Getting to The Point

Josephine — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 21:40:26 +0000

Building chemistry for both of us is the key to a GREAT call.

Sometimes I find a caller has a difficult time explaining what he’s into. As good as I am at reading people the reality is I can’t read your mind. Especially if someone is a little nervous or shy. You called because you wanted sexual fulfillment or you wanted to engage in conversation. The best calls are the ones where we spend a little time getting to know one another. This doesn’t have to go on for a long time, however it does break the ice and allows both of us a chance to explore what we are both into. The best calls, for me are interactive and where we both engage in the fantasy. I want you to have a great time and I also want us to continue to explore always finding new ways to take it to the next level.

I prefer the cards on the table. After an introduction and causal conversation I prefer a caller to tell me the reason they are calling;

Goddess I wondered if we could chat a bit about my experiences and get to know each other.
Goddess I’m damn horny and really need to get off.
Goddess I don’t really know why I’m calling. I saw your picture and my hand started dialing! (laughing)

I love it when a caller tells me about himself and what makes his cock rock hard. Here’s a good example;

“Goddess Josephine my name is Bill. I am 45, 5’6, 180 pounds, blonde hair, green eyes and my cock is 6 inches. I found your profile on Suck Patrol because I have an overwhelming desire to be a cock sucking faggot to a beautiful dominant woman that controls my cock. I’d love to do a fantasy where you force me to dress in panties or a sissy dress and then whore me out to a group of men.”

“Goddess I am a little sissy wearing a petticoat and in chastity. I beg you to give this sissy an assignment that will not only emasculate and humiliate me but make me less of a man then I already am. Can we please do a fantasy where I am forced to bend over for your strap-on dildo? I am not into men at all.”

“Josephine I think you’re hot and sexy. I can’t keep my hands off my cock when I look at your pictures. Will you please tease my cock, give me stroke instructions and decide if I should cum or not? I’m not into domination but enjoy a sexy woman that is good at giving me instructions on what to do with my cock. I give you complete control over my cock.”

Its always best to just get to the point. Don’t be rude and rush my creativity. If you have a budget and need to stay with a certain time frame then please just tell me or email me right before your call. Phone sex doesn’t have to be rocket science. Building chemistry for both of us is the key to a great call. If I’m excited by the call it will spawn intense creativity. If you can afford the time i highly recommend that you spend some time getting to know each other. I’m very good at picking up on things and we’ll have a true GFE (girl friend experience). Its amazing the things we’ll turn up!

How do YOU Like it?

Now I’d like to hear your ideas and how you like your calls. Do you like conversation first or getting right down to it? Do you enjoy closing your eyes and imagining a fantasy or prefer being giving task like tying up your balls, spanking yourself, etc? Do you tell your Mistress what you’re into and what kind of call you like or do you wait for her to dig it out of you? What would be the best scenarios for you to make your calls PERFECT?

Please feel free to email me if you have questions or use the pre-session questionnaire located on the left.

The RUSH of Public Humiliation – How to do it safely & still make your dick hard

Josephine — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 23:45:56 +0000

You’ve had fantasies about public humiliation, being exposed or getting caught BUT you just can’t take that first step and worry that you might get arrested or see someone you know. You also have to get over the mental block that tells you you’re slap ass crazy! (laughing) Meanwhile you’re pulling away at your cock in panties fantasizing about a group of women pointing and laughing at you.

There are simple solutions for you to try, however its just no fun doing it alone. This is why its good to team up with one of the mistresses here at LDW. We enjoy helping you plan the perfect public outing and if earn a reward.

Here are a few fun simple ideas for those of you just starting out.

Click the MORE link to read about assignments and ideas…

Assignments

Buying Panties

Buying panties is a simple assignment that anyone can do. Even if your first time. For your first time you should go to a department store. Go into the ladies dept and look for the ladies lingerie. Of course a sales woman will probably approach you to ask you if you need help. Tell her that you’re there to buy panties for your wife. Of course she’ll ask you what size she is. Tell her that your wife is about “your size”. Of course she may look at you funny, at first but she’ll certainly help you. You are not the first man to ever buy panties and many times you’ll get someone that is going to have a little fun with it. If she seems freaked out or put off then leave, however this rarely happens. Once you buy your new pretty panties take them home, put a pair on and masturbate thinking about your adventure.

Panty Expose’

Now that you have your new wearing pretty panties wear them under your boys clothes out to work or shopping. Imagine people looking at you and they somehow know you’re wearing panties. If you want to be really daring you can put on a pair of white pants with dark red or black panties so that they show through. Another fun thing to do is wear fishnet or some other sexy stocking under your pants but NO socks. Then when you sit down your pant leg will lift revealing your stockings. FUN FUN!

Pick YOUR Cock Size

You don’t have to be a sissy to enjoy this one. Go to the adult sex toy store. Tell them you need to purchase a large dildo. You will also tell them, as they show you the selection, that its for your wife….your cock is too small ( small penis humiliation) and if they have something that will fit over your small penis. OR tell them that your wife wants to fuck you and you’re looking for a starter cock so it won’t hurt you. I love this trip!

I’ll come back later and post some more. Maybe you have some to share? Remember these are for our friends just starting out BUT feel free to share ALL your ideas! Post in comments below.