You know how there is just “something” about a woman? She doesn’t even have to be drop dead gorgeous, however the way she moves, smiles, her eyes dance and she carries herself with seductive purpose. She uses the right choice of words and even though you know she is capable of hurting you, she confidently portrays herself as a lady. If she wants you she will have you. Its just that simple and will stop at nothing to capture you. The art of seduction is mastered and she spend the time to study you before going in and claiming you.
I don’t expect men t0 be quite as calculating. They are physical creatures that rarely possess the ability to really figure women out in general much less complex diva. However a man can learn a skill set in teasing and seducing even the most multifarious woman. It’s not rocket science or magic. The most important component is consistency which can be very difficult for most males. Its a handicap you are all born with and if you were not fortunate enough to learn early, from a very demanding woman, then you might spend the rest of your life settling for women you don’t desire to your core. In fact I would judge to bet that many of you are in relationships right now with women that are the opposite of the women you masturbate to.
The first step in teasing and pleasing a Diva, such as myself is to be consistent with your intent to please her. Learning to focus on her needs is what smart men do because a happy woman will bestow her gifted charms on you. A selfish macho idiot gets only a fraction of what a woman is truly capable of giving. The women that allow this, 9 times out of 10, are incapable of high superior levels of sexuality. Therefore you must be prepared to have a plan, stick with it and follow the steps.
1) Compose a letter or prepare a verbal mission of your intent. Nothing swoons a woman quite like this. Tell her that you adore her and have made it your mission to rock her world.
2) Buy her a gift. Nothing proves action and intent more than a well thought out gift. It doesn’t have to be expensive. Don’t be a weenie, just do it and do it often. I am thrilled to receive gifts as a measure of devotion. Its a huge turn off when a man doesn’t make an attempt. It’s not about the money because the truth is “someone” will give it to me. There will always be a man ready to go that extra mile for me. Are you going to stand out or disappear into the background? Make a budget, stick to it and be consistent with your generosity.
3) Study her. Learn what she enjoys and engage her. I have a caller that knows how much I love travel and exotic places. He learns about them and tells me all about it. He takes the time to study and find interesting things. I LOVE talking to him. Another taught me about various bourbons and the history. I love learning new things. It’s not JUST phone sex. Its a relationship and I will be as generous as you are. Share a fantasy you think I’ll enjoy. I have a few callers that give me great phone sex. In fact I often have orgasms on the phone. They invest the time, money and adoration into our relationship. We share secrets, sexy IM’s, email and more. It’s a whole other level because I am “IN TO IT”.
I love it when one of my humiliation whores presents a well thought out mission he knows I’ll enjoy. I enjoy planning, doing and following up. Or a stroker boy gives me control over his cock for a week. He has stroke instructions, knows he can’t cum but will beg, whimper and plead. These can even be a series of short 10 min calls throughout a week. Another sissy of mine, who enjoys being my little princess, will get all his clothes and make-up, turn on the cam and let me dress him like a doll. We each get a glass of wine and we have the best time! Be creative and when in doubt just call me and lets discuss ideas.
3) Let her know you are thinking of her. Gifts and calls are nice but little notes letting her know you’re thinking of her are wonderful. Don’t write long letters in case she is busy. Just a simple note letting her know that you are thinking about her and how wonderful she is.
Ms.Josephine, This was great to read and very informative. Thank you for sharing
these tips with us.
words to live by, or better yet, to serve by.
You are very welcome honey. I was thinking about you in the snow storm and imagining you collared and chained shoveling snow. It’s nice to see you.