You long for the feeling of true subjugation and to feel submission in the pit of your throat but you are afraid or just don’t know how to give up control.
I had a phone session this morning with C. He’s a great guy that loves phone sex. When he called he had his balls and nipples tied to a chair with wheels as he began pushing it away from him. He had already been torturing himself prior to calling. When he called he explained his predicament and began telling me how to torture him. He also told me he would give me control over his cock and that I could decide if he was permitted to cum or not. In the first 5 min of the conversation I had the feeling that maybe he did want to lose control. He was into a lot of different things, had gone to real time mistresses and was really into being submissive… or so I thought.
Once into the phone session he began directing me. I’m not under the illusion that it’s all about me and I do realize you are paying for erotic phone sex according to your interest. I totally get that but when you ask me to take control and make decisions then change what I’m doing to direct me to do something else it’s a total turn-off. Here’s why.
Had he submitted a pre-session questionnaire (located on the left in pages) and been explicit about his needs “that” call (this can change every session- that’s totally cool and why I have a questionnaire to begin with) I would have read it, sat back, put myself into his space and brew some of my own ideas along with his. Although I prefer being totally in control I know this is “your session”, however wouldn’t it be nice to not only take it to the next level but for me to enjoy it as well? Damn right it would! (laughing)
FYI – I am an expert at studying you and figuring out exactly what makes you tick. If you want to give me the ammunition (your fetishes) to control you then I’ll place them in my arsenal and use them as I see fit. As long as you are completely directing my every move you will never feel controlled – really. I am happy to really take control, give you assignments in email and tease you in-between calls as long as I am enjoying myself. When you call simply put the ball in my court. If you expect to cum in the end just say so but IF you leave it up to me then you need to accept whatever my decision is.
Present ideas because you know they bring you deeper into subjugation but please don’t tell me what to do. It’s a huge turn off IF you’re trying to get and keep my attention. I know its only phone sex but why can’t we make it the best phone sex ever? We can if we talk, exchange and find the right blend of ingredients to rock us! Let’s have some conversation about it? Take a little extra time and we’ll create a plan that will meet your budget and availability. Just be honest and tell me your concerns, what you want to achieve and what we have to work with. I promise you that if you do it my way you’ll have an awesome time! It doesn’t have to end after the phone call. I can be your Mistress/Girlfriend all the time. If you email me, even to say hello or tell me what MY COCK is doing, unless I’m in a session or sleeping, I will always get right back to you.
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Goddess,
Giving up control can be hard to do, Goddess, but i like to think that we have had a good rapport during our calls. You listen to how i respond to Your voice as we speak and i can not help but be excited listening to Your voice wondering what You are going to say next.
I hear you Ms Josephine! Phone sex is hottest and best when the caller gives up at least a little bit of control. If I was a guy I’d give you all control!