Comments on: Ok Seriously What Do You Think? Engage Me…

By: Stephanie

Stephanie — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 02:58:34 +0000

Hello Goddess,
Somehow going into public alone with a mission in mind does not bother me. If I was told to go to Victoria’s Secret to buy underwear alone, I would not have a problem with that,
Now if you or another Mistress went along, I would be terrified. Not knowing what was to come, or what you would do while we were there.
One of my fantasies would be to go to a tattoo parlor with you or another Mistress. A rose tattooed on my ass, or being marked as Goddess’s slave would excite me, but also make me feel very humiliated.

By: Kendra

Kendra — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 01:17:09 +0000

Dear Josephine,i
Why does humiliation excite me? Great question! Is it knowing that a woman as beautiful as you would never want someone like me? Is it an inborn feeling of inadequecy around women in general? It is just simple fantasy? I know that in my real life, I could, and do, get offended when I’m spoken to in a language that you’ve used with me on calls before. But of course I’m the one who asked for it in the first place when I called you. The women I’ve been with have considered my size average or better, and I haven’t had a women I’ve been with make fun of it, unless I’ve asked, but for some reason, I ask. Hmmmm. Maybe the responsibilities of life? I doubt that all people with large responsibilities in their life wear pink thongs under their slacks. (maybe they do… who knows?) But I do know that when you have that moment when you can safely turn fantasy into realty.. real time, especially, but over the phone as well, when you can trust someone to love you even though you want them to put you in their panties, and they’ll tell you that you’re their sex slave, not because they want it, because they know it gets you hot, and you’ll do anything to please them. WoW! Now you’re talking. Not an easy situation for most women to embrace, and such, many men must come to the internet and wonderful women like yourself to express themselves. I don’t know if that makes any sense or not.
All the Best to you!
K

By: Empress Josephine

Empress Josephine — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 17:09:52 +0000

Humiliation challenges us. It chomps away at your macho exterior and allows you to relinquish control. It’s really just as simple as that. Once you understand it and go with the flow you can concentrate on hot orgasms and not why the fuck you wanna wear panties or have your cock laughed at.

By: Greg Billings

Greg Billings — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 16:55:53 +0000

Hi Empress Josephine, I too enjoy SPH and have one, not quite 4.5″. I didn’t realize how much of a turn on humiliation was until a girl I dated a few times made fun of my little dick, I got an instant hard on. She ran with it, called me a few names which I also loved and told me to look forward to life as a fluffer. At the time I had no idea what that was, so I asked – fluffing what? She laughed hysterically and told me it wasn’t pillows but it was something that needed to be fluffed in a certain way and I would be perfect for the job. We didn’t go out much more, all she could talk about was finding real men with real dicks. She also told her friends how small I was so the dating pool dried up for me long ago. I found your site and realized there were others like me but more importantly hot strong women like you who could weave hot stories that involved guys like me. You do have all the power over guys like me, not sure why but I’m almost afraid what I’d do if I actually met someone like you. I don’t really understand why I would get turned on being humiliated by hot women, forced to wear panties and so on but I know it is my biggest weakness and biggest turn on. I haven’t done phone sex in many years so this type of call would be new for me, I haven’t worked up the courage to call you – yet.

By: erica

erica — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 14:03:28 +0000

Goddess,

i do not find SPH that exciting, but i can relate to what KC said. i do have fantasties about being locked in chastity by a Mistress and having Her share my release key with all Her friends while they laugh and tease, even call me to ’serve’ them.

By: Empress Josephine

Empress Josephine — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 13:19:17 +0000

Hello Tbone and welcome! Thank you for your comments.

By: Tbone

Tbone — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 12:21:25 +0000

Hi Empress Josephine,
I love SPH. A big reason why is that I am only about 4.5 inches erect. It is a total rush that a strong superior women would make me feel inferior.
Here are some othe things I would enjoy about SPH.
Given nicknames and humiliated because of my small penis. Humiliated for the small penis when compared to real men. How the small dick would lead me to be a cuckold. How it should be locked in a chastity device because it is not a real man’s dick. How it leads me to being a slave to a superior wome. I love SPH.

By: Empress Josephine

Empress Josephine — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 01:19:20 +0000

I enjoy public humiliation as well. I love your post. Keep them coming you hotty!

By: KC

KC — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 20:45:56 +0000

Hello Goddess Jo. As Javondog stated, I’ve not dealt with SPH either. I’m not sure how I’d feel until I experience it.

But, on the other hand, the humiliation factor in a D/s relation is exciting. To me, it gives Her more power over me, a power I want to surrender to Her. She is ‘putting me in my place’ below Her. If She humiliates me, it shows She accepts me, in a way, to be worthy of some of Her efforts and time. I also like that She loves doing it, so it’s an amusement factor for Her and that’s one reason I’m here as well. If I can be a source of amusement for Her, my mission is at least partially successful.

I’ve seen a Mistress leading a sub/slave around on a leash in public (!!!) and people were scoffing, making jokes, laughing…. but if I could be under the spell of such a Domme, in a position like that…. well, what I would give for that chance (actually what I would do to NOT be forced into that position!! It could be used as a punishment as well if a sub is bad or unresponsive.)! I think it’s another one of those things where the Domme and sub can help feed off one another. It’s definite empowerment. To me, the humiliation is better (more exciting) if other people know about it, not just the Domme and sub. Both kinds (public and private) get my stomach tied in a knot, adrenaline flowing… but public humiliation is more intense, wondering all kinds of things to myself . Humiliation can be used as a predicament toward the sub for Her, like a threat for the sub to do something OR ELSE…! It’s an exciting thought to NOT have any control. To be under the control of another is exciting to me. Just how far will I go for a Domme? I wonder… In ways, public humiliation is embarrassing, but somehow it makes my internal blood percolate with excitement. I think the adrenaline flowing in a sexual way makes it erotic for me. I imagine it like a drug addict in a way (never been one thank you)… the more I get, the more I crave and almost need.

Things and ideas that would excite me:
-kneeling before a Domme in a public place, even kissing Her foot.
-being locked in chastity by Her and having Her share my release key with all Her friends while they laugh and tease, even call me to ‘serve’.
-public and private collar and leash.
-publicly worn sign (jewelry or mark of some kind) that I belong to Her
-writing words on myself with permanent marker by Her order, even left in public view. Having Her take photos of my humiliation for future amusement , or having to send Her photo proof I’m doing things as She commands.
-embarrassing shopping trips (lingerie, telling the shop ladies they are for me. Strap-on/anal plug shopping at an adult store. Etc.).

Thanks for asking input and ideas.

By: Javondog

Javondog — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 18:07:18 +0000

I don’t know mistress. I’ve never had sph. It interests me, but all of the women I have ever been with say that my 6 inch cock is perfect for every hole. Not too big or small. Only one woman said it couldn’t please her. My x wife said that no woman wants to be 60 years old someday with a man with a huge cock hurting her at that age and that mine fits perfectly. That was not false confidence either. So maybe I can get into that which u describe. Seeing huge fuck tiny Lil women does make me cum. Thank you for the interesting question mistress. Please enlighten me.
Your servant,
Javondog